By Sean Shively
These four words came from the movie Water Boy, with Adam Sandier. In the movie, he played a character whose name was Bobby Boucher. His friend, Townie, played by Rob Schneider had faith in Bobby that he could succeed at playing football. He would always say to Bobby, “You can do it!”
I want to share some things I’ve learned as a prisoner tutor and as a college student at the prison. My comments are for prisoner students and any other tutors in the prison system. My college education has opened many doors for me to be able to have a social life outside of these walls and fences. I truly believe that an education is the cornerstone for stopping recidivism in our prison system. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard some of the guys I tutor say, “I don’t need a G.E.D.” or “School is a waste of my time.” Every time I hear them say this, I feel like saying, “If we get an education while we are in prison, we could get a decent job and then we would not have to break the law to support our families.” It is not about the time cuts we are given for completing these classes. It is about staying out forever! We are given the chance to break these chains that bind us, and all we have to do is educate ourselves! That sounds like a win-win situation to me.
To succeed as a student you have to focus. I know it is hard sometimes because we are worried about our loved ones that we have left behind. But we must “keep our eyes on the prize.” The prize is our education, which will enable us to go back out into society as productive members. When you come to class, you must focus all your energy on accomplishing this goal. Do not let others distract you from achieving your education.
Also, as a student you must humble yourself. Do not be afraid to ask questions if you do not understand something that you are studying. To me, there is no such thing as a stupid question. I know it is sometimes hard to ask another inmate for help, but you must overcome this fear because your tutors are here for you. As a tutor, I never put myself above anyone else. I put on the same khakis as my fellow students do. If they do not hesitate to ask me a question, then I can help them with the areas in which they are struggling. This two-way street of communication that I try to establish with my peers has also been beneficial to me, too. I have learned how to be a better prisoner tutor and I learn something new every day from those I tutor.
Perseverance is needed to succeed as a student because you will sometimes be faced with thoughts of wanting to give up. If you receive low scores or you struggle in certain areas, you must continue to strive forward every day. The most important thing to remember is: don’t give up! Set your goals in small steps that are realistic and achievable, so that you will see them being fulfilled. This will give you the desire to reach the next goal you have set. Before you know it, you will get your G.E.D. or complete the college degree you are pursuing.
I truly feel that in the type of environment we are in, dedication is by far the most important key to succeeding in your education. Even when you do not feel like going to school, you must get up and go. I have seen a lot of students trying to figure out how to get out of being in school, rather than being dedicated and getting the education they need. As a student, you must develop a one-track mind. You must have a mind-set that tells you that you will succeed and that nothing will stand in your way. Your education must become the most important goal, and you must do whatever it takes to get it. Remember, this education will not only free you from incarceration early, but it will also give you the tools you need to remain outside these walls and fences forever. If this is what you want, then you must dedicate yourself to laying this cornerstone in your life. This will give you a solid foundation to allow you to be able to take care of yourself and your loved ones without resorting to a criminal lifestyle.
I will be leaving in a couple of months. I took this job at first to help my peers get their time cuts, but I learned something along the way. It is not about helping these guys get out early, it is about helping them stay out! You would not believe the joy and happiness I feel every time one of the guys I have tutored gets his G.E.D. There are no words to describe how proud I am of all the guys I’ve helped. I have faith in each and every one of the guys I tutor and anyone else who wants to take a step toward staying out of prison. If you want to stay out of prison, then keep your noses in the books and remember Townie saying, “YOU CAN DO IT!”
AUTHOR Sean Shively was a commercial framer in the Indianapolis metropolitan area. He has received several college certificates from Purdue University while in prison, where he works as a prisoner tutor.